Paynes Prairie Preserve State Park

My buddy Judy celebrated her birthday last week. To celebrate, we made the short trip to Gainesville to camp at Payne’s Prairie.  We took back roads and avoided I-75, so we were already relaxing by the time we got to Payne’s Prairie State Park.

Florida is HOT in June!

First, let me just say that tent camping in Florida in June is only for the courageous.  It is hard to say which was more troublesome: mosquitoes or deerflies.  But I can promise that the heat was ridiculous.  It was hard to fall asleep even after a relaxing shower and staying hydrated was a challenge given that we were sweating our brains out.  BUT – if you must tent camp in June, Payne’s Prairie is a pleasant place to do so.

Our Campsite

Photo credit: Judy Holtz

Payne’s Prairie tent-only sites do not all have power and water. Check before reserving if that’s important to you.  Water is available at the bathhouse, of course, but water is heavy and you may not want to carry it. Our camping loop comprised three tent sites – 27, 28, and 29.  To get to site 27, you had to walk through 28, but our site, 29, offered superb privacy. We used water from site 27 since no one was camping there.

Surprisingly, there appear to be NO raccoons in this park! I don’t think I’ve ever tent camped in Florida without being awakened by rummaging raccoons. Our site provided a picnic table and a tall post with a hanging hook where a lantern could be hung. There is some road noise from I-75, but it was nearly inaudible over the cicadas and tree frogs.

The Visitor Center

The visitor center is staffed by knowledgeable volunteers and overlooks the prairie. You’ll have the opportunity to watch an overview movie that lasts about 20 minutes – we were eager to get on to the trail and did not watch the movie. We did, though, enjoy the other displays. From the large window, we could see bison in the distance!

Observation Tower and a Bit of Advice

From the visitor center, it is just a short walk to the three-level observation tower, and it is worth climbing to the top for a beautiful view of the prairie. My best advice for viewing the prairie is to give it time.  This is not a sight like the Grand Canyon or a coral reef – you can easily be deceived into thinking there is nothing to see.  But the longer you watch the prairie, the more there is to see, and you could overlook something wonderful by not giving this place time to unfold before your eyes.

Karst Geology and Alachua Sink

Up on the tower, you get a sense of how vast the prairie is, and how Florida’s karst geology informs its landscape. This prairie was formed as sinkholes merged. As often happens in Florida where water and plants are left to work together naturally, the plants form a filter to purify the water. The amount of life nourished by this system is unimaginable.  Bear, deer, smaller mammals, waterbirds of every kind, alligators and smaller reptiles, fish, plants. . .it’s all here.

At the end of the 19th Century, Alachua Sink (the major drain of the Prairie) got blocked and the prairie was covered by a large lake.  During the two-decade blockage, ferryboats used the lake to travel from Gainesville to Micanopy (pronounced mih-ka-NOPE-ee) and fishermen were delighted. Imagine their disappointment in 1891 when the blockage disappeared, taking the lake with it!

Lake Wauberg

Part of the Lake Wauberg lakeshore is accessible from within the state park. There are lovely places to sit and enjoy the lake, a boat launch for boaters and kayakers, and you can even fish if you are properly licensed. The lakefront is a really nice place to sit in the late afternoon and enjoy something cold to drink and you cool off from the heat of the day.

Photo Credit: Judy Holtz

Hiking

If you like hiking, there are trails for every skill level at Payne’s Prairie and in the immediate area. A large wall in the visitor center provides information about the length of each trail and what you may see on each one. I would have liked to see better trail information, especially since there was no guidance once actually on the trail. When we go back for more hiking, we will bring our own maps. We hiked more at Sweetwater Preserve than we did at Payne’s Prairie, mostly because Sweetwater was shaded.

When you hike at Payne’s Prairie, be prepared with plenty of sunscreen and water. We had been warned to bring insect repellent but did not find it necessary on Cones Dike Trail, which led us straight along the edge of the prairie. Plentiful waterbirds were in evidence, along with lizards, a doe and her fawn. . .but no buffalo or wild horses.

We have both decided that we’d love to come back to camp here again, but only during cooler weather. The primitive camping conditions (no water/power onsite) just made the heat a bit too much for us to bear. With a regular afternoon rainstorm, it might have been cool enough to stay in tents, but we got no rain while we were there. In the air-conditioned popup or an RV summer camping would be bearable on sites with power and water.

10 Must-Haves for a Camping Kitchen

My camping style falls somewhere in between bare bones and glamping, but I do love to eat, and a great dinner is one place where I won’t cut corners.  Over a lifetime of camping, I’ve managed to whittle my kitchen down to a manageable size so it can be transported easily, whether I’m camping with my hubby in the pop up or camping on my own in my tent.

Full disclosure is necessary, though.  I prepare most of our meals at home, freeze them, and thaw and reheat at camp.  We usually have fresh salads (I chop the veggies at home). This cuts down on the equipment I need and the time I spend prepping at camp. I would much rather do my chopping and peeling in an air-conditioned kitchen!

1.            Pots and Pans

I have two pots and two skillets, in different sizes.  So far, I have not missed other sizes and containers in my camping life!  My skillets are stainless, not cast iron, and some people are surprised and even scandalized by this.  You do you: if you want cast iron, pack it!  I love my lightweight stainless and have not missed the cast iron since I gave it up years ago. I have a lid for the smaller of the two pots, but I think I will add one for the larger pot, too.

2.            Plates and Cutlery

I have a couple of large ceramic bowls, a few melamine plates, and real cutlery that I store in a rack that goes on the table. The rack includes steak knives, a small set of tongs, and a serving spoon and serving spatula. I have two coffee mugs because, honestly, what good is waking up in paradise if you can’t enjoy the sunrise with a great cup of coffee? I’ve also got two stemless wine goblets because, honestly, what good is winding down in paradise if you can’t enjoy the sunset with a nice sangria?

3.            Cooking Implements

Here, too, my kitchen is fairly stripped down. I have a good can opener, which I’m considering ditching now that many canned goods have pull tops.   I’ve got a stainless spatula and a big stainless cooking spoon. I don’t have a strainer. I don’t have fancy gadgets, but I do have a French press coffee pot for when I travel on my own.  When Steve and I camp together, we bring Mr. Coffee along. I also filter camp water, so we have 2 Brita pitchers. On my St. Augustine trip, I bought a stainless steel bowl for salads.

4.            Pantry Items

My kitchen box is large enough to hold some pantry items.  I store it in the shed, so humidity is an issue.  But I permanently store artificial sweetener, Brita filters, multiple lighters and some fire starter material (along with spark-makers so the fire will start even if all the lighters are empty!), some seasonings, tea bags, and packets of hot chocolate. I’ve got a 2 quart pitcher for iced tea and a stainless steel French press coffeepot. I might throw in a couple packages of ramen noodles as I pack for a specific trip, and of course, I add salt and pepper.

5.            Coleman Stove

Since I was a child, I’ve cooked on a Coleman stove, and I don’t think you can do better for most camping meals.  I did make the switch from white fuel to propane, and I find it heats very quickly and is very convenient. It starts every time and I think I own three of them.  Why? Because I can.

6.            Miscellaneous Items

I ALWAYS use a tablecloth when camping.  I’ve seen RVers put their waste hoses on picnic tables…ugh.  So I have multiple tablecloths. I use Dr. Bronner’s Peppermint Soap for everything, so you’ll always find that in my camp kitchen. I’ve also got hot pads and trivets, paper towels, disinfectant wipes, and a wipe container filled with grocery store bags that we use as trash bags. We produce little trash when we camp, and a single grocery store bag gets us through the entire day.

7.           Okay — NOT Kitchen Items but Still Gotta Have Them!

Hmm. I didn’t make it to ten. So I’ll share with you a few more things I love to bring along. We recently treated ourselves to two sets of solar camp lights.  They look like the Edison bulbs, and a single string is long enough to go around our 10X10 canopy.  I absolutely LOVE everything about these lights.  They are convenient, easy to set up, STURDY, and provide enough light to read by without keeping neighboring campers awake. In all honesty, we are usually asleep soon after dark, but we love these lights!

8.            Games.

We have SO MANY GAMES, but we always bring Itzi, Pairzi, and Tenzi when we camp. Cards, too.  And when I finally master Cribbage, we’ll add a Cribbage board to our must-haves. We get our games here.

9.            Small Vacuum Cleaner

Nope, I’m not kidding.  I cannot stand sand and dirt all over my tent or in the pop up, and I invested in a small vacuum that keeps my feet happy. It’s rechargeable and has a light so I can see the sand. I love it!

10.          Door mat/Ground Cover

To reduce the need for the vacuum, I also bring a door mat and ground cover.  These go, of course, right outside the tent or pop up. They don’t stop ALL the dirt, but they stop most of it.

There are things I want to add, like a handwashing sink and maybe an electric kettle for late night cups of tea. But for now, this kitchen set-up helps me stay organized and avoid single use plastics.  Other than the paper towels and wipes, it’s an environmentally friendly kitchen. I’m not a recycling nazi, but I do want to be responsible.

Now it’s your turn. What are your must-haves? What might make this a better set-up? 

What Is a Camping Concierge, Anyway?

Camping concierge services can be very basic (providing a reservation only) or can provide a glamping experience with all the bells and whistles provided for you. My Exquisite Florida caters to Florida tent campers who need help managing some, or all, aspects of their trip.

Cozy campsite in the Everglades

Why Would I Need a Camping Concierge?

Why would anyone need a camping concierge? Well, I was inspired by memories of my Mom and all the work she would do to get us ready for a family picnic. What was a relaxing day for the rest of the family was an exhausting experience for her!

She provided most of the physical labor and all the emotional labor that fueled those picnics and outings, and they seldom provided her with a break at all. Mom found the great locations, planned the menu, did the grocery shopping, prepared the food, loaded the cooler, made sure we were dressed appropriately for the day, made sure we went potty before we got in the car. . . and that was just the START of it!

When we got where we were going, then she wrangled my Dad and three kids all day long, kept us all out of trouble, and when we got home she made sure we all got bathed and changed into our jammies. Then she unpacked and did dishes. No wonder we didn’t have more adventures together.

A camping concierge makes sure that everyone gets to enjoy the vacations that are meant to recharge our souls. With the daily details taken care of, your family can simply enjoy the splendid surroundings and sleep soundly at the end of each day.

Beautiful upland pine community on Yearling Trail, Ocala National Forest

What Does a Camping Concierge Do?

At the simplest end of the spectrum, I will find and reserve a campsite for you, and you can do all the rest. Sometimes that’s all you need.

In the middle range, I will make your reservation, prepare meals for you to reheat onsite, and suggest several ideas of things to do while you are on vacation. Sometimes you just need a little guidance to have a thoroughly wonderful time.

At the most “glampy” end of the spectrum, I will make your reservation, set up the campsite for you in advance of your arrival, prepare and serve your meals (including clean-up afterwards), pick up your trash each evening, provide detailed itineraries and guided excursions, and break down your campsite at the conclusion of your trip. Sometimes you just want to let go and let someone else do ALL the work. That’s what I’m here for!

So Give Me an Example

How about SEVERAL examples?

I’ve led guided hikes through the Ocala National Forest. I’ve guided individuals and I’ve guided small groups. Sometimes these have included lunch, but most of the time they are short trips of about 3-4 hours.

Hiking in Ocala National Forest

I’ve guided groups of kayakers. We’ve taken trips on spring runs, on rivers, across open water in the Florida Keys and we’ve even done night trips during the bioluminescent season along our Indian River Lagoon. I really love working with people who have never kayaked before, or who have only kayaked a little bit. It is so gratifying to watch someone grow in skill and confidence! When I can shepherd someone from absolute beginner status into buying their own boat, I am as proud as can be.

Preparing to launch in Lake County

I’ve coordinated camping trips for individuals and families. These range from simple trips which only required a reservation (where I do not even go along) to more involved trips which have included meal service and guided excursions for a family of five. On this last trip, we even made solar ovens and had a game day — unexpected fun for all of us!

Pebble-y beach on Tarpon Belly Keys

I always try to include a bit of lagniappe – oh, you’ve never heard of lagniappe? Look it up right here! It may be hot chocolate for the kids one morning or a marshmallow toasting kit one evening, mulled cider. . .or something else entirely. The point is to delight you in an unexpected way.

So What’s It Gonna Cost?

Hard to say until we answer several questions together.

Where do you want to go and when? I add a 30% surcharge to the camping reservation fee. State and National Parks offer inexpensive camping opportunities, but it can be hard to get a reservation. Private campgrounds are generally more expensive, but may offer more in the way of amenities and availability. Let’s talk about what you want to do once you get where you want to be.

Want me to set up and breakdown your tent? $100, unless it’s particularly complicated. Got a canopy? Happy to set that up for an additional fee.

If you want guided excursions, the charge depends on the expertise required. If it is an excursion I can guide, I generally charge $40/hour plus any admission or ticket fees, gratuities, etc. Kayak trips are more expensive because of state registration and insurance requirements. Trips that require an outside guide will be based on that guide’s fees, with a surcharge for my set-up time. Let’s put some thought into what would make your trip most enjoyable, and then we can make it happen.

Meal service depends on the menu items you select and the level of service you require. This is the hardest part of the trip to calculate. If I’m just delivering prepared meals for you to reheat and serve on your own, a very rough estimate is about $12 per person per meal, but let’s talk.

I can often offer economies based on what’s in my freezer. How does coq au vin sound? Grilled ham and cheese sandwiches with salad? Grilled pizza? I’ll feed you well, and there will often be leftovers. The same meal, cooked and served by me, including cleanup service, will run about $15 per person per meal.

Let’s Get Your Exceptional Adventure Underway!

Contact me today to get a quote started. Email pam@myexquisiteflorida.com for more information.

Lake Louisa State Park

When you make the turn from Highway 27 into Lake Louisa State Park, you may feel the weight of the city lifting from your shoulders. Within the Green Swamp Area of Critical Concern and along the northern boundary of the Lake Wales ridge, here you have access to nearly unlimited adventure! 20 miles of trails, a system of 10 lakes, and 4500 acres of rolling hills are home to eleven natural plant communities.

This diversity of habitat enables a wide variety of wildlife. You may see deer, bobcat, gopher tortoises, fox squirrels and many birds. On a recent visit hosted by the Lake Beautyberry Chapter of the Florida Native Plant Society, we saw many gopher tortoise burrows, tons of birds, and two brown watersnakes, one of which was getting ready to molt. What an adventure, right here in Lake County!

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Neighborhood Lakes Trail

This recently opened trail is short but a great indication of how much fun we are all going to have when Lake County’s system of trails is connected. And the experience of riding it is a reminder to myself that the longer I put something off, the harder it is to do – not riding my bike for a while turned in to 15 years of missing the wind in my face and the pleasant tremble of muscles that have worked really hard.

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A Different Sort of Adventure

IF YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT SUICIDE, PLEASE CALL 800-273-8255. HELP IS AVAILABLE.

I should warn you right up front: this is not a standard My Exquisite Florida post. This is not a story about an exceptional adventure. It is a story about an effort to lay down a burden of unbearable grief and a simple ritual that may help. This particular ritual took place at Horseshoe Park and Fairy Trail in Cassadaga. Cassadaga is home to many spiritualists and mediums, and while you may not appreciate the “woo” factor or believe in anything other than the physical world, it is a beautiful place and the people who live and work there are kind and open — even to those who are skeptical.

You may know that my husband’s best friend, Kevin, died of suicide several years ago. Kevin visited us shortly before his death, and Steve and I both knew he was in big trouble. Neither of us knew enough to talk to him about our fears, and instead of keeping him with us where we thought we might be able to keep him safe, we let him go home. We never saw him again, and several days later his ex-wife called to tell Steve that Kevin had shot himself.

When I tell you that Steve is a survivor of suicide, I do not mean that Steve attempted suicide and failed. I mean that the impact of Kevin’s death was so profound that Steve’s life was disrupted and the distress he has experienced has had an effect on his health, physically and mentally. Although Kevin’s death was nearly six years ago, Steve is just now making meaningful progress in moving forward from the grief and guilt that he has carried.

Yesterday, we visited the Fairy Trail at Cassadaga. I found this place a few months ago and have been back several times to enjoy wandering the trail and experiencing the pleasant town of Cassadaga. There are offerings and messages left all over the Trail, and there is a power in this place: a sense of peace and hope and certain knowledge that whatever “it” is, it is going to be okay. I had hoped, when I first realized that the cigarette tucked in a kiosk was an offering left in memory of a loved one, that Steve might find some comfort in this garden. I made the suggestion and Steve did not seem terribly interested. BUT a couple of weeks ago I made the suggestion again, and Steve agreed that he would find a memento and try to begin saying “goodbye” to Kevin in a healthy way.

I know that he did not experience the Fairy Trail in the same way I did, and I know there will likely be no magic moment of “poof” where he will suddenly feel the weight lifted from his shoulders. But I also know that he is not immune to the workings of the Universe, and that his willingness to visit signals readiness to move forward. Steve left the letter he earned in Junior High track perched on a young magnolia tree, and I know that whatever is left of Kevin in this world smiled. Simple, simple, simple. . .as the best rituals are. Someday in the next week or so someone will look at this simple letter and be touched, and I hope Steve feels it happen.

Steve has started his journey back to wholeness. The Universe has his back every step of the way. So will I.